Selena: an incredible and exceptional human being - Her personality and values


Most people say that Selena was a very charismatic person both onstage and offstage. They become embezzled and impressed when they watch her performances and other videos. Selena always made people feel very comfortable from the fist moment they met her. She complimented them about anything such as their clothing or even their nail polish color. She valued people and all the personal relationships she had and loved giving surprises and sharing her stuff. 

Selena's father has said many times that she was full of life. She was always laughing and joking around, enjoyed the little things in life and appreciated everything she had.  She consider her family to be the most important thing in her life and was very close to all of them.She also spoiled her friends and always wanted them to look good. She went shopping with them, bought them clothes an invited them to go with her to boutiques to get their nails or hair done. However, Selena trusted people too much and thought everyone was nice and good. Unfortunately, the immense trust she put into who she once considered  her best friend led her to an early and senseless death. 

Selena considered herself an old-fashioned lady because of her upbringing and the values that he parents taught her. Her visions on abortion and waiting till marriage are reflected in some interviews. When people told her that she was very provocative and sexy onstage, she would reply that she had two personalities: one onstage and one offstage. Actually, her onstage outfits were sexy but never trashy.  Selena like to wear bustiers, leggings, vests, caps, and boots. She did most of her hairstyles by herself such as the one for the 1993 Tejano Music Awards. She was always designing clothes and sketching new outfits during her free time. When people asked her what she liked to do during her free time she would reply that was she was always working because she was the type of person who always has to do something.

Even thought Selena had too many positive traits, she also had some negative traits that her husband, Chris Perez, shared on his book To Selena with Love. He stated that Selena was actually a very stubborn person. Once she made up her mind it was very difficult to change it. With time, he got used to dealing with this issue and learned how to handle most situations. Christ also said that Selena loved challenges and always wanted to win to prove to herself that she could do it. On a trip to Vegas, Selena did not stop playing some game until she won. She also always accepted challenges and dares. Once she accepted to go bungee jumping, which later left her with a terrible backache.

Moreover, Chris also declared that Selena loved, laughed, and cried with too much passion and emotion. She loved as much as she could, tried to help out, and made people feel good and welcome. Selena has become an inspiration for many people to to appreciate the little things, to take risks, to be a good person, to value everything we have, and, most importantly, to appreciate and enjoy life. 



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